Tuesday, 22 December 2015

Dear Mom......... rough around the edges

Dear Mom.......  I'm wondering if I'm looking a wee bit rough around the edges these days.  Today I went to Crappy Tire to get the dogs new beds for Christmas and to get Karen a little something to take to her home (she invited me for Christmas dinner so I'm not alone), and all of a sudden someone came up to me I haven't seen in some time.  Joseph, a really nice guy, one of the few left, that works for housing.  He kept mentioning my health.  Do I really look that bad these days?

I cry a lot lately Mom...  I miss you and these holidays are not going over very well for me.  I'm trying to cheer the hell up but it's not working.  I don't have any Christmas decorations up.  No one has called me to help so they are sitting up on the top shelf of the closet where I guess they will just stay.  Maybe I'll stay home and be miserable here instead of inflicting myself on Karen's family on what's suppose to be a joyous day. 

I need to do something.  I think I would be good at giving out dinners somewhere but I can only stand for so long so I'm not much good really am I?  If I had money I'd go out and feed some people that way but I don't have the money to do that.  I need to win Friday's Lotto Max, it's $60 million.  I could feed a whole lot of people with that.  I wish I could fill my hours like that.  Giving it away slowly to those that really need it.  Sometimes I just want to shut down my organization because some of those people are just so greedy Mom.  You used to tell me that and boy is it ever true.  I actually removed a few people from the program simply because of that.  Greed. 

I hate this Christmas without you....    In these past 5 years of taking care of you since you were bedbound I hadn't thought about what would happen when you were gone.  I didn't think of how many friends dropped off because I wasn't available any more.  I'm not complaining Mom, never will about taking care of you.  I just never realized how they were dropping off until now and now I realize how alone I really am. 

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